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St.Thomas and Fort Willoughby Jan 10
Cruise ship Docked at Havensite in background on St.Thomas

St.Thomas in the background

Being a romantic at heart, I  always envisioned what life was like in the 1700 and 1800s.  Around the time that Pirates and merchants were using St.Thomas and Charlotte Amalie as a haven and stopping point before setting courses for other destinations world wide.

Yesterday, I had the opportunity to explore Hassel Island.   From a far, I admired the  stone work on the ruins located on the island. They can be seen upon entering the harbor on St. Thomas, U.S. Virgin Islands.

According to the website http://www.seestjohn.com/hassel_island.html.  The Danes who settled St. Thomas constructed a fort called the Prince Frederik’s Battery at Magens Point on the south eastern shore of the peninsula. The battery was built in 1779. The British also constructed Shipley Battery on a hilltop on the north part of the peninsula and Cowell’s Battery atop the hillside on the south. The fortifications included barracks, officer’s quarters, a hospital, cisterns, powder magazines, latrines and mess buildings.  Which leads me to my big adventure.

After packing a lunch, because you can’t do any serious exploring without the necessities of  chocolate, Dr.Pepper and slim Jim’s. I commandeered our 8 foot dingy with an 8 horse power outboard and started out across Long Bay or more widely known to most land lovers as St.Thomas harbor.

For the past 200 years the fort has been sitting directly across the bay from the Marriott’s FrenchMans Reef  hotel.    How often have tourists and locals passed by without a second thought.  Not I, not any more but not knowing what to expect I approached with anticipation and food.

What I found was captivating , interesting and mesmerizing at least for me.  To think that I was walking on and touching the same stone work that some craftsman or laborer did in the 1700s gave me goose bumps.  While I sat on the steps of the fort and drank Dr.Pepper, I let my imagination run wild and thought about all of the ships that passed this fort.  Pirates, merchants, fishing vessels,Navy of most nations, cruise ships and pleasure crafts.  Hard telling where my imagination would have wandered, had I had a rum punch.

The view was beautiful what a back drop for ??? (imagination at work here)

St.Thomas and Hassel Island Fort ruins

Legend has it that where I was standing, the authorities anchored a chain that stretched across the harbor to the other side.  When the harbor was threatened it was pulled taunt to repel ships from entering.  Other legends have it that Bluebeard, the pirate, was blocked from leaving.  (I love legends and they run rampant down here so don’t go using this as fact).

The walk from where the dingy was docked to the ruins took about 10 minuets.  The path is not  maintained , wearing shoes instead of flip flops is a necessity. Not only did the rocks and uneven terrain proved a challenge but the thorn bushes were everywhere.

It was worth the effort, the view was great and ruins were pretty well preserved considering they were so old, however I could see some recent decay taking place on stone railing and walls.

Fort Willoughby ruins, Hassel Island in the Virgin Islands

Wow what a picture this would make with a bride and groom standing in it.

Contrary to popular belief  The Virgin Islands government owns the ruins of Fort Willoughby, these ruins are not under the protection of the Parks and wildlife department as other parts of Hassel island are.  My hope is that the  government keeps them in mind when budgeting.   It would be ashame to see them decay more.

 What a great place for an adventursome couple to get married there.   Let me know if you have  a sense of excitiment or want an unusual location to get married.

Fort Willoughby window arch

Arch from Fort located on Hassel Island U.S. Virgin Islands

Do I need to plan a destination wedding? Jul 12

Well,  truth be told , we at Beach Weddings By Deb  have planned weddings for couples in two days. Especially elopements. Now, I am not advocating that everyone procrastinate planning their wedding but it can be done in a short amount of time  with or without all of the frills. Providing the frills you want are available the day of your celebration.
But if you don’t want to take the risk of having your dream weddings location taken or the special cake maker available.  The safest bet is to start making plans for your wedding, the  day you make reservations. Whether they be cruise ship or Air, Villa or hotel. Then you will be certain your wedding day will be  picture perfect.
If you are just starting the process, get a note book and jot down notes of all the vendors you have interviewed or talked with, file  notes , emails and  copy of the of the website  address  all together  in a folder.
Then when you have made your decision,  throw the unwanted ones away.
Now this may seem like a no brainier, but you would be surprised,  how after a few clicks of mouse, the packages, websites, and locations all seem to blend together.  Who said what and which location promised to be your dream maker all seem to be in  a swirling cloud out in the land of the Internet.
It also saves time, both yours and the vendors you are visiting. As soon as you get an email or phone call regarding your wedding, file it with the proper vendor’s information.  Keep your copy of the contract with your file and don’t forget it the day of the wedding.
Remember that with any Wedding Coordinator or venue you need to have a contract. A contract protects both the client and the vendor. The contract should also address what happens if you cannot make to your wedding or it has to be canceled.  I cannot think of any reason that you would not have to sign a contract for services rendered. So if your Wedding Coordinator does not send a contract beware. But to avoid any problems and to save time and have a dream wedding just contact us at beachweddingsbydeb.com Call or email me at Deb@beachweddingsbydeb.com we have doing weddings and officiating at wedding for the past twenty years.

How to plan a summer wedding on a Tropical Island. May 03

AHHh summer time and the living is easy, and warm, and sometimes very warm.

Summer in the tropics can be a challenge and planning a summer destination wedding on one of the  U. S. Virgin Islands can be a downright gold medal event.  Now don’t get me wrong, summer on St. Thomas in the Virgin Islands is wonderful and beautiful.  It’s considered the off season so you will find the best rates for air, hotel, charters, and weddings.

The beaches, hotels and restaurants are less crowed and island time takes on an even more relaxed atmosphere.    But if you are not prepared for the climate you may be in for a surprise. 

Oddly enough if you were to look at the temperature data of previous years you would not see much of a fluctuation in temperature.   But it does get warmer.  How can that be?   It’s all in the heat index.

The heat index (HI) is an index that combines air temperature and relative humidity in an attempt to determine the human-perceived equivalent …
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heat_index

The temp that reads 86 degrees really feels like 95 degrees even with the trade winds.  But don’t despair with a bit of knowledge and preparation your wedding can be a dream come true.   That is if you have dreamed of palm trees, turquoise blue water, white sandy beaches and beautiful lush tropical landscapes.

Below I have listed a few suggestions to help make your day perfect, actually you could use them any time of year.

  • Plan either a morning wedding up to 11:00 am or an afternoon wedding after 4:30 P.M.   There is day light until 6:30 P.M…
  • Plan on the wedding party clothing around the weather. Cotton and linen for the men, sun dresses, for the ladies.
  • Consider using decorative parasols for wedding party. Hand fans for the guest.
  • As a wedding Officiate I always have small cloth hankies available for the bridal couple for during the ceremony. Great for sweat and or tears. 
  • Plan with your Officiate to have a ceremony that is meaningful to you but is not over 15 min. in length if in the sun.
  • Wedding cakes melt in a warm environment.  Good thing is if you use Fondant as the frosting, they will hold up longer, the down side is the flavor.  One of my brides had a fake decorated cake to have pictures with, and then offered cup cakes to the guest.  This was a big success.
  • Choose a location that offers protection from the sun while waiting for ceremony to begin and after.
  • Make arrangement to have water available to guest and wedding party even if you are having a champagne toast.
  • Plan with your photographer. 
  • Make a list of people to be in group shots and have a member of family coordinate it.
  • Arrange to have cake pictures before the reception to avoid a cake melt down.
  • Have water proof makeup, comp , powder and lipstick close by for touch ups 
  • Plan on a more relaxed less formal wedding, consider a charter reception after a beach wedding. Often with bar, lunch, wedding cake served on board while snorkeling and island hopping.
  • Plan a reception with a catered meal at one of the beach covered facilities right after the wedding ceremony or in an air-conditioned local upscale restaurants

Summer time doesn’t mean you have to sweat the small stuff. (Did I really write that?)

Organization and planning can make it all perfect.   If it all seems too hot and heavy (yep that one too.)

Call us Beach Weddings By Deb for help we will put our blood sweat and tears into it so you don’t have to.  (Couldn’t pass that one up)

St. Thomas , Water Island , Virgin Islands Folk legends Feb 25

Proceed with caution:  this brief little history lesson is one I have cobbled together from various personal stories, legends, and reading material.  I cannot vouch for the veritable history I am going to tell, but it is a little enlightening and entertaining.  If that is what you seek, please read on and enjoy!

 Across the harbor from Charlotte-Amalie is Hassel Island, which used to be part of mainland St. Thomas.  Back in the 1930′s, a trench was cut near Frenchtown to reach West Gregerie Channel to provide two ways in and out of the harbor.  But in the 17thcentury when the Danish built a fort over on Hassel Island, there was only one way in and out, the Havensightside, where most of the cruise ships dock today.  The Danes knew this, so they would wait for the pirate ships to sail into the harbor, laden with plundered treasure and other goods.  The Danes ran a heavy chain across from the fort on Hassel Island to St. Thomas, thus trapping the pirates’ ships in the harbor.  The vessels couldn’t leave the harbor because their hulls would get caught on the chain, and they were effectively sitting ducks for the Danish cannons.

 There is estimated to be $800 billion in treasure at the bottom of St. Thomas harbor, due to the Danes’ cannons and various shipwrecks from weather and disaster.  To give some idea of how vast a figure that is, President Barack Obama’s initial stimulus package for the United States had a $780 billion price tag.  Unfortunately, nobody can get to all that booty.  It’s under 18 feet of silt.  Every time it rains on St. Thomas, everything that washes down from the mountains flows right out into the harbor, so the harbor floor is continually covered in layer upon layer of muck.  Even the “super salvagers” like Mel Fisher from the Atocha fame of Key West can’t reach it, because they just don’t have the technology yet. 

But, every now and then, a hurricane or tropical storm will disturb those layers of muck on the floor of the harbor, and we may find booty washed up on our shores and beaches.  Not all of it is in gold doubloons, mind you, but it all has value.  An intact bottle from the 17thcentury might well bring in a few hundred dollars.  The tiny chip from a dinner plate found in a shipwreck in the harbor I wear around my neck cost $45.00, so be aware, that useless pottery shard, clay pipe, or what have you that you find while beachcombing may boast a hefty price tag, too.  Happy Hunting!

Incidentally Water Island has one of the best beaches for weddings in the Virgin Islands.  When planning on a St. Thomas wedding , inquire about Honey Moon beach on Water Island.  The clear water and sandy beach make an ideal setting.  Since Water Island is not connected to St. Thomas it does not have the heavy tourist traffic.   A ferry makes the 5 min trip every hour to Water Island from St. Thomas Crown Bay Marina.

Wedding on Water Island, US Virgin Islands